Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓

@AdamLaneSmith · Fix your romantic life→ · joined 19 Feb 2013

Attachment Theory specialist. MA Psych. 16 years helping clients build secure romantic, personal, and professional relationships.

73 224Followers

413Following

88 609Posts total

19.8KViews on collected posts

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Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith6 ชม.

@AdamLaneSmith But not as resentful as a wife who wants the trash taken out RIGHT NOW! LOL 47 views · 0 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith9 ชม.

@AdamLaneSmith Men tend to operate loosely in reciprocity. When volunteering becomes minimum expectation, unappreciated, unvalued and disrespected - anyone on the wrong side of that may kindly f#€|< off. 108 views · 2 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith9 ชม.

@AdamLaneSmith Resentment often tells you that you have been repeatedly agreeing to something that you have reasons not to have accepted. Not quite the same thing as "should", which sort of conflates and erases all other considerations. 61 views · 4 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith10 ชม.

Men can become resentful after years of volunteering for burdens they never discussed with anyone. 6.1K views · 116 likes · 4 reposts · 2 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith10 ชม.

Resentment often tells you that you have been repeatedly agreeing to something you should not have accepted. 4.4K views · 122 likes · 8 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith11 Sep

A strong boundary describes the behaviors clearly enough that you can follow through without another argument. 3K views · 48 likes · 2 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith11 Sep

Hold your boundaries calmly. Anger does not help, it makes you look unstable. 3K views · 118 likes · 7 reposts · 4 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith10 Sep

People who benefited from your weak boundaries may push harder when you finally become consistent. 2.9K views · 105 likes · 5 reposts · 2 replies Open on X →

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8 โพสต์จาก 90 วันที่ผ่านมา เทียบกับช่วง 10K–100K ผู้ติดตาม การเข้าถึงปกติสำหรับขนาดนี้ แต่การตอบสนองแรงกว่าส่วนใหญ่.

ยอดดูมัธยฐาน2 986บัญชีนี้990ค่ามัธยฐานของ 10K–100K

การเข้าถึง, %4.08%บัญชีนี้3.40%ค่ามัธยฐานของ 10K–100K

การมีส่วนร่วม, %2.49%บัญชีนี้1.81%ค่ามัธยฐานของ 10K–100K

ตัวชี้วัด	บัญชีนี้	ค่ามัธยฐานของ 10K–100K	อัตราส่วน
ยอดดูมัธยฐานต่อโพสต์	2 986	990	3.02×
การเข้าถึง (ยอดดู ÷ ผู้ติดตาม)	4.08%	3.40%	1.20×
อัตราการมีส่วนร่วม	2.49%	1.81%	1.38×

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Growth & engagement

How the posts we collected actually performed: views and reaction rate post by post, what the audience did with them, and where the follower count goes.

Views per post

2.9K10 Sep

3K11 Sep

4.4K12 Sep

6.1K

108

Last 8 collected posts, oldest on the left. The scale is logarithmic: one post can outrun the rest a hundred times over.

Engagement rate per post

3.83%10 Sep

4.24%11 Sep

1.64%

2.99%12 Sep

1.99%

6.56%

1.85%

0.00%

Reactions — likes, reposts, replies and quotes — divided by views. Median for 10K–100K accounts is 1.81%.

What the audience does

Likes80.0%515 in total

Reposts4.0%26 in total

Replies1.4%9 in total

Bookmarks14.6%94 in total

Share of every reaction we collected for this account. Replies mean argument, reposts mean endorsement, bookmarks mean the post was worth keeping.

The follower curve appears once this account has two daily snapshots — we take one a day, and this one is on its first.