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Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist

@AdamLaneSmith · Fix your romantic life→ · joined 19 Feb 2013

Attachment Theory specialist. MA Psych. 16 years helping clients build secure romantic, personal, and professional relationships.

73 224Followers
413Following
88 609Posts total
19.8KViews on collected posts

Latest posts

@AdamLaneSmith But not as resentful as a wife who wants the trash taken out RIGHT NOW! LOL 47 views · 0 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →
@AdamLaneSmith Men tend to operate loosely in reciprocity. When volunteering becomes minimum expectation, unappreciated, unvalued and disrespected - anyone on the wrong side of that may kindly f#€|< off. 108 views · 2 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →
@AdamLaneSmith Resentment often tells you that you have been repeatedly agreeing to something that you have reasons not to have accepted. Not quite the same thing as "should", which sort of conflates and erases all other considerations. 61 views · 4 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →
Men can become resentful after years of volunteering for burdens they never discussed with anyone. 6.1K views · 116 likes · 4 reposts · 2 replies Open on X →
Resentment often tells you that you have been repeatedly agreeing to something you should not have accepted. 4.4K views · 122 likes · 8 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
A strong boundary describes the behaviors clearly enough that you can follow through without another argument. 3K views · 48 likes · 2 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →
Hold your boundaries calmly. Anger does not help, it makes you look unstable. 3K views · 118 likes · 7 reposts · 4 replies Open on X →
People who benefited from your weak boundaries may push harder when you finally become consistent. 2.9K views · 105 likes · 5 reposts · 2 replies Open on X →

Against accounts of the same size

8 posts from the last 90 days, next to the 10K–100K follower range. ordinary reach for its size, stronger reaction than most.

Median views2 986this account990median for 10K–100K
Reach, %4.08%this account3.40%median for 10K–100K
Engagement, %2.49%this account1.81%median for 10K–100K
MetricThis accountMedian for 10K–100KRatio
Median views per post2 9869903.02×
Reach (views ÷ followers)4.08%3.40%1.20×
Engagement rate2.49%1.81%1.38×

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Growth & engagement

How the posts we collected actually performed: views and reaction rate post by post, what the audience did with them, and where the follower count goes.

Views per post

2.9K10 Sep
3K11 Sep
3K
4.4K12 Sep
6.1K
61
108
47

Last 8 collected posts, oldest on the left. The scale is logarithmic: one post can outrun the rest a hundred times over.

Engagement rate per post

3.83%10 Sep
4.24%11 Sep
1.64%
2.99%12 Sep
1.99%
6.56%
1.85%
0.00%

Reactions — likes, reposts, replies and quotes — divided by views. Median for 10K–100K accounts is 1.81%.

What the audience does

Likes80.0%515 in total
Reposts4.0%26 in total
Replies1.4%9 in total
Bookmarks14.6%94 in total

Share of every reaction we collected for this account. Replies mean argument, reposts mean endorsement, bookmarks mean the post was worth keeping.

The follower curve appears once this account has two daily snapshots — we take one a day, and this one is on its first.

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