Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓

@AdamLaneSmith · Fix your romantic life→ · joined 19 Feb 2013

Attachment Theory specialist. MA Psych. 16 years helping clients build secure romantic, personal, and professional relationships.

73 224Followers

413Following

88 609Posts total

19.8KViews on collected posts

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Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith7 sa

@AdamLaneSmith But not as resentful as a wife who wants the trash taken out RIGHT NOW! LOL 47 views · 0 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith10 sa

@AdamLaneSmith Men tend to operate loosely in reciprocity. When volunteering becomes minimum expectation, unappreciated, unvalued and disrespected - anyone on the wrong side of that may kindly f#€|< off. 108 views · 2 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith10 sa

@AdamLaneSmith Resentment often tells you that you have been repeatedly agreeing to something that you have reasons not to have accepted. Not quite the same thing as "should", which sort of conflates and erases all other considerations. 61 views · 4 likes · 0 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith10 sa

Men can become resentful after years of volunteering for burdens they never discussed with anyone. 6.1K views · 116 likes · 4 reposts · 2 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith10 sa

Resentment often tells you that you have been repeatedly agreeing to something you should not have accepted. 4.4K views · 122 likes · 8 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith11 Sep

A strong boundary describes the behaviors clearly enough that you can follow through without another argument. 3K views · 48 likes · 2 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith11 Sep

Hold your boundaries calmly. Anger does not help, it makes you look unstable. 3K views · 118 likes · 7 reposts · 4 replies Open on X →

Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist ✓@AdamLaneSmith10 Sep

People who benefited from your weak boundaries may push harder when you finally become consistent. 2.9K views · 105 likes · 5 reposts · 2 replies Open on X →

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Son 90 güne ait 8 gönderi, 10K–100K takipçi aralığıyla yan yana. boyutuna göre olağan erişim, çoğundan daha güçlü tepki.

Medyan görüntülenme2 986bu hesap99010K–100K için medyan

Erişim, %4.08%bu hesap3.40%10K–100K için medyan

Etkileşim, %2.49%bu hesap1.81%10K–100K için medyan

Ölçüt	Bu hesap	10K–100K için medyan	Oran
Gönderi başına medyan görüntülenme	2 986	990	3.02×
Erişim (görüntülenme ÷ takipçi)	4.08%	3.40%	1.20×
Etkileşim oranı	2.49%	1.81%	1.38×

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Growth & engagement

How the posts we collected actually performed: views and reaction rate post by post, what the audience did with them, and where the follower count goes.

Views per post

2.9K10 Sep

3K11 Sep

4.4K12 Sep

6.1K

108

Last 8 collected posts, oldest on the left. The scale is logarithmic: one post can outrun the rest a hundred times over.

Engagement rate per post

3.83%10 Sep

4.24%11 Sep

1.64%

2.99%12 Sep

1.99%

6.56%

1.85%

0.00%

Reactions — likes, reposts, replies and quotes — divided by views. Median for 10K–100K accounts is 1.81%.

What the audience does

Likes80.0%515 in total

Reposts4.0%26 in total

Replies1.4%9 in total

Bookmarks14.6%94 in total

Share of every reaction we collected for this account. Replies mean argument, reposts mean endorsement, bookmarks mean the post was worth keeping.

The follower curve appears once this account has two daily snapshots — we take one a day, and this one is on its first.

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