Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men ✓

@Pat_Stedman · Do the Attraction Self-Audit · joined 19 May 2014

J6 Political Prisoner. Dating + Relationship Coach. Helping men who want healthy relationships to attract & keep their dream girl. 360+ clients happily served.

65 562Followers

1 075Following

67 269Posts total

366.1KViews on collected posts

Against accounts of the same size

6 posts from the last 90 days, next to the 10K–100K follower range. shown widely, but few of those viewers react.

Median views29 353this account1 195median for 10K–100K

Reach, %44.77%this account3.80%median for 10K–100K

Engagement, %0.84%this account2.00%median for 10K–100K

Metric	This account	Median for 10K–100K	Ratio
Median views per post	29 353	1 195	24.6×
Reach (views ÷ followers)	44.77%	3.80%	11.8×
Engagement rate	0.84%	2.00%	0.42×

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Growth & engagement

How the posts we collected actually performed: views and reaction rate post by post, what the audience did with them, and where the follower count goes.

Views per post

64.7K4 Sep

21.2K5 Sep

29.8K

28.9K

204.5K

17.1K

Last 6 collected posts, oldest on the left. The scale is logarithmic: one post can outrun the rest a hundred times over.

Engagement rate per post

0.72%4 Sep

1.82%5 Sep

0.95%

3.10%

0.38%

0.69%

Reactions — likes, reposts, replies and quotes — divided by views. Median for 10K–100K accounts is 2.00%.

What the audience does

Likes80.0%2 625 in total

Reposts4.2%137 in total

Replies3.9%129 in total

Quotes0.9%31 in total

Bookmarks10.9%358 in total

Share of every reaction we collected for this account. Replies mean argument, reposts mean endorsement, bookmarks mean the post was worth keeping.

The follower curve appears once this account has two daily snapshots — we take one a day, and this one is on its first.

Latest posts

The devouring father. How many girls has he ruined? How many women went down the wrong path, and lost love because of him? 17.1K views · 98 likes · 8 reposts · 10 replies 05 Sep 2026 We must address the modern phenomenon of the 'girldad' if we are ever going to get out of this mess 204.5K views · 669 likes · 27 reposts · 61 replies 05 Sep 2026 It's a lesson in female nature that claims we are living in a patriarchy have increased exactly at the rate our civilization has been becoming a matriarchy. 28.9K views · 834 likes · 40 reposts · 22 replies 05 Sep 2026 Hard to understate how fantastic this article is. It addresses the substrate of the problem not simply with fertility rates and the dating market, but of society in general. The solution will occur organically from the ground up over the next 20 years as we have so often 29.8K views · 266 likes · 9 reposts · 9 replies 05 Sep 2026 The long-tail of DEI continues to wreck havoc among in the job market. Administration really needs to figure this out. 21.2K views · 343 likes · 29 reposts · 9 replies 05 Sep 2026 The biggest predictor of fertility decline is the education & employment of women & not grad school or C-suites, either TFR goes underwater around the point of “escaping subsistence agriculture” & “having indoor plumbing” & “being taught to read” https://t.co/b 64.7K views · 415 likes · 24 reposts · 18 replies 04 Sep 2026 Thread of client successes and testimonials, with brief background on results (You can apply here if you want to work with me: https://t.co/szn2XjhqDr) 🧵 0 views · 182 likes · 25 reposts · 52 replies 09 Dec 2022