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@laditabari · joined 12 Apr 2013

Family Matters | Nothing Personal Here, Save Your Feelings | Spiritual, Not Religious.

24 771Followers
19 246Following
15 950Posts total
107.1KViews on collected posts

Latest posts

I stayed with her for a long time that day. Before I left, I asked if she wanted help starting her garden again—not for the vegetables, but for herself. She squeezed my hand and said that maybe, for the first time in two years, she was ready to try. Sometimes the kindest gift 69 views · 4 likes · 1 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →
Bringing vegetables was just the only way she could think of to visit someone without it looking like she was lonely or asking for pity. When I gently brought it up, she started crying before I could finish and said, "Those 30 minutes with you are the only part of my week I 86 views · 3 likes · 0 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
After her son passed away and her husband moved out a year later because he couldn’t stand the quiet house, she was left alone. She was too proud to ask anyone for company or say she was lonely. The vegetables were never really what mattered. 87 views · 3 likes · 0 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
It turned out she had been buying vegetables at the farmers' market every Friday night, driving twenty minutes across town so no one from our neighborhood would see her there. She would then pack them into her own old crate before bringing them to my door the next morning. 112 views · 1 likes · 0 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
Last Saturday, another neighbor noticed the crate she had given me and suddenly looked pale. She told me, "She hasn't planted a thing since her son passed 2 years ago." I felt confused. When I went to her house to see for myself, I froze. The garden was completely bare, almost 203 views · 3 likes · 0 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
My neighbor started bringing me a crate of vegetables from her garden every Saturday. She always laughs and says, "Too much grew again!" I usually offer her something to drink and invite her to sit with me. We were never very close before, but I’ve started to enjoy our 30- or 851 views · 20 likes · 4 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
Sometimes it's better not to delete their names from your phone.📲 You have to rather change their names 👀 You change their names to: Don't answer one 🚫 Don't answer two❌ Don't answer three😂 Don't answer four🚫🚫 Don't answer five❌❌ Don't answer six🎵🎵 Don't answer https://t.co/pW 558 views · 12 likes · 5 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →
I took an Uber to my hotel two weeks ago. The driver greeted me like usual, but then she glanced at me in the rearview mirror and gasped. She said, “It’s you with that smile again!” 841 views · 20 likes · 3 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
@laditabari That's so precious, I make things that I sell in a craft shop locally but when gifting to friends I always wonder if they just end up in the bin 🙄 8.8K views · 44 likes · 0 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
We stood quietly together. Then I brewed us coffee, and at last, we talked about his pottery. Since that day, I have come to learn the power of reassurance and the beauty of reappreciation. 11.3K views · 488 likes · 11 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →
For six years, he has shaped clay into gifts, offering them each Christmas, never knowing if they truly mattered. Yet every day, I begin my morning with coffee in his mugs, though I never told him how much I cherish them. 11.3K views · 603 likes · 2 reposts · 1 replies Open on X →
My friend is a potter. I own two of his mugs, and I use them every day for taking coffee. When he visited last week, he spotted both mugs on my counter and paused, studying them for a moment. “You actually use them?” he asked. “Of course,” I said. Then he said, “I never knew if 72.3K views · 4.3K likes · 56 reposts · 7 replies Open on X →
Question: Can you predict someone's divorce by their wedding? Answer: I have found that the bigger the ring 💍 the bigger the divorce 💔and the bigger the wedding spectacle, the more likely the divorce….🤔 https://t.co/6DtTLwCNf0 590 views · 11 likes · 4 reposts · 0 replies Open on X →

Against accounts of the same size

13 posts from the last 90 days, next to the 10K–100K follower range. reaches fewer people than peers, but engages them much harder.

Median views590this account924median for 10K–100K
Reach, %2.38%this account3.62%median for 10K–100K
Engagement, %3.05%this account1.52%median for 10K–100K
MetricThis accountMedian for 10K–100KRatio
Median views per post5909240.64×
Reach (views ÷ followers)2.38%3.62%0.66×
Engagement rate3.05%1.52%2.00×

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Growth & engagement

How the posts we collected actually performed: views and reaction rate post by post, what the audience did with them, and where the follower count goes.

Views per post

59014 Aug
72.3K
11.3K
11.3K
8.8K
84125 Aug
5583 Sep
851
203
112
87
86
69

Last 13 collected posts, oldest on the left. The scale is logarithmic: one post can outrun the rest a hundred times over.

Engagement rate per post

2.54%14 Aug
6.06%
5.34%
4.43%
0.51%
2.85%25 Aug
3.05%3 Sep
2.94%
1.97%
1.79%
4.60%
4.65%
7.25%

Reactions — likes, reposts, replies and quotes — divided by views. Median for 10K–100K accounts is 1.52%.

What the audience does

Likes97.0%5 530 in total
Reposts1.5%86 in total
Replies0.3%15 in total
Quotes0.0%2 in total
Bookmarks1.2%69 in total

Share of every reaction we collected for this account. Replies mean argument, reposts mean endorsement, bookmarks mean the post was worth keeping.

The follower curve appears once this account has two daily snapshots — we take one a day, and this one is on its first.

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